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Introduction
Before the spotlight blinded him, before “Mandy” rewrote the sound of the 70s, before the world crowned him the King of Soft Pop, Barry Manilow was just a Brooklyn teenager hopelessly in love with a girl who seemed to anchor his entire universe: Susan Deixler. Long before he became an icon, he did what no one expected—he walked down the aisle with his high school sweetheart in 1964, believing he had found the kind of forever that even his most emotional lyrics could barely touch.
But behind that picture-perfect wedding, behind the tux, the vows, the trembling hands of a boy dreaming too big and loving too deeply, was a truth far more complicated, far more human, and far more heartbreaking than the public ever knew.
Their marriage wasn’t the glamorous union of two stars. It was the raw, unfiltered collision of innocence and ambition. Barry was only 21, caught between a life mapped out for him and a dream so loud it drowned out everything else. Susan, radiant, grounded, and utterly devoted, stood beside a man who was teetering on the edge of a destiny neither of them could fully predict.
In 1964, their union looked pure—young love untouched by fame, untouched by the scrutiny that later defined his career. But what was happening behind closed doors was a silent tug-of-war between the life Barry had promised and the life he was hurtling toward. Friends recall the way he wrestled with his future even as he tried to cling to the comfort of a familiar love. Those early days weren’t filled with limousines and arenas; they were filled with uncertainty, late-night rehearsals, tiny New York apartments, and the rising pressure of a man whose talent threatened to outgrow the world around him.
Their love story cracked not because they didn’t care, but because Barry was transforming at a speed that no relationship could reasonably withstand. The more he gravitated toward music — the composing, the performing, the complete surrender to melody — the more distant the life he had built with Susan became. She wanted a family. He wanted a stage. She envisioned normalcy. He envisioned eternity in chords.
The split that followed wasn’t explosive; it was tragic in its quietness. A slow unraveling of two people who still cared deeply but could no longer walk the same path. Barry would later describe Susan as “the perfect wife,” but perfection couldn’t compete with the gravitational pull of his destiny.
Their marriage lasted barely a year. But its emotional echo? It lasted decades, shaping the man he became, the songs he wrote, and the secrets he held.
And now—with new reflections, resurfaced interviews, and candid confessions—the real story of Barry and Susan’s brief but life-defining marriage hits harder than ever.